What Should You Not Wear to a Christening?

While most people understand the general dress code for major life events like weddings, deciding what to wear to a christening might not be so obvious. Christenings are formal yet joyful occasions, and dressing appropriately shows respect for the ceremony and the family celebrating. While it's typical that baby girls will wear christening gowns and boys will dress in christening suits, it's not obvious what to wear as a guest. Whether you’re a godparent, guest, or close family member, we’ve got you covered on what not to wear to a christening in 2025.

Unlike weddings, there isn’t always a strict dress code for christenings, but there is an unspoken rule: aim for modest, respectful, and semi-formal attire.

• Men should wear slacks, a button-down shirt, and ideally a blazer.
• Women should opt for dresses, skirts with blouses, or tailored jumpsuits.
• Children should also dress neatly, avoiding overly casual looks like ripped jeans or graphic tees.

For Women:

• Pastel midi dresses with elegant draping
• Floral or lace dresses for a soft, timeless look
• Tailored jumpsuits in neutral or pastel tones
• A-line skirts with blouses for a chic and polished look

For Men:

• Navy or grey suits (a classic choice!)
• Chinos with a dress shirt and blazer for a smart-casual approach
• Loafers or dress shoes instead of sneakers

Generally, jeans are too casual for a baptism. However, dark, well-tailored jeans might be acceptable at a relaxed, outdoor christening. If in doubt, opt for dress pants instead.

Sneakers are too informal unless they’re dressy leather sneakers and the event is very casual. Dress shoes or ballet flats are a safer choice.

While black isn’t forbidden, it can feel too somber. If you love black, brighten your outfit with a colorful accessory like a scarf, tie, or statement jewelry.

There’s no specific or standard color that you shouldn’t wear to a christening. You can wear any color you want, but it’s always best to avoid very gloomy colors and instead opt for more pastel colors to maintain the happy mood of the occasion.

Yes. A grey suit will be an excellent choice if you’re heading to a formal christening with a fancier affair. Most people prefer wearing navy or grey suits because they always look good, rather than black, which can look like you’re heading to a funeral. 

Parents should dress in elegant, comfortable, and timeless attire. Moms often opt for a knee-length or midi dress, while dads look great in suits or smart blazers with dress pants.

For a Catholic baptism, women are encouraged to wear modest dresses or skirts that fall below the knee, and men should stick to collared shirts and slacks. Some churches may ask women to cover their shoulders with a shawl.

In other cultures, dress codes may be more formal or colorful. Always check with the family hosting the christening to be respectful of their traditions.