How Much Money Do You Give for a Baptism Gift in 2025?
Although the terms Christening and Baptism are often used interchangeably in Christianity, they have slightly different meanings. Baptism refers to the sacred ceremony where a child is received into the Church , while Christening traditionally refers to the naming portion of the rite . Still, they usually occur together—and a thoughtful gift is always appreciated for either!
If you’ve just received a baptism invitation , you might be wondering:
Should I bring a gift?
Is cash appropriate?
How much money should I give for a baptism?
Let’s break it down with updated etiquette for 2025.
Is It Appropriate to Give Money for a Baptism?
Yes—cash is a traditional and thoughtful baptism gift. Many families will set it aside for the child’s savings, education, or future needs. If you’re unsure what to buy or want to contribute in a meaningful way, monetary gifts are both practical and appreciated .
How Much Money Should You Give for a Baptism?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but here are a few guidelines based on your relationship with the child and your current financial situation.
Close Family or Godparents
If you’re the godparent , grandparent , or aunt/uncle , your gift may reflect your close relationship and spiritual role in the child’s life.
$100–$200 is a generous and common range in 2025 for close relatives
If your family has traditions around saving bonds or heirloom gifts, this is a great time to honor them
Being a godparent often comes with the desire to give something extra meaningful—whether that’s a financial gift or a special keepsake.
Extended Family or Close Friends
If you’re a family friend or relative who’s not directly involved in the ceremony:
$50–$100 is a thoughtful and appropriate amount
Feel free to adjust based on your relationship and budget
Acquaintances or More Distant Guests
If you’ve been invited as part of a larger guest list or you’re not very close to the family:
$25–$50 is perfectly acceptable
A handwritten card with a blessing or prayer adds a personal touch
What If You’re On a Budget?
Don’t worry— what matters most is your presence , not the size of your gift. The family likely invited you because they value your relationship.
$20–$30 is a respectful amount if that’s what you can comfortably give
You can also give a small, heartfelt keepsake or handmade gift
Can I Give a Savings Bond or Set Up a Fund?
Yes—and it’s a great idea. Targeted giving is growing in popularity. Consider:
Savings bonds or 529 education plan contributions
A check with a note specifying it's for the child’s future
A baptism gift card attached to a meaningful item like a children’s Bible or keepsake
These types of gifts offer long-term value and can help reduce the temptation to spend the funds prematurely.
What Are Thoughtful Alternatives to Money?
Looking for something more personal or symbolic ? There are many meaningful baptism gift ideas that don't involve cash:
Heirloom Keepsake or Handmade Gifts
Personalized baby bracelets
Christening Jewelry: Sterling silver crosses or charm necklaces
Religious baby rattle, rosaries, or engraved frames
Custom baptism blankets, plush animals, or books with prayers
Heirloom-Quality Clothing
At Baby Beau & Belle , we handcraft heirloom baptism gowns , rompers , and accessories designed to be treasured for generations . These make unforgettable baptism gifts that reflect the significance of the day.
✨ One of our favorites? The Boys Harrison Christening Suit or the Ella baptism dress.
Final Thoughts on Baptism Gift Etiquette
Getting invited to a baptism is an honor . It means the family sees you as someone who will play a role in their child’s life.
If you’re stressing about whether to give money or a gift , remember this:
Your presence matters more than any present.
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Baby Beau & Belle
Hi Yvette! Thanks for your question. We don’t know the etiquette specifically regarding chamorro bapsitm, but in general there’s no set rule for what’s acceptable from great-grandparents regarding baptism gifts. Our input is that an heirloom baby gift is the most meaningful as it’s something the child can keep and remember into their later years. Families cherish this and it’s something to be remembered by. For a monetary gift it’s perfectly acceptable to give according to your means. People spend anywhere from $20-200 on a baptism gift. We hope this helps and feel free to reach out to us via our live chat box in the lower right hand corner with any other questions!
Yvette
Our grandson &his wife just baptised their 2nd son, our 2nd great grandson in 3 years from he&his wife. I wanted to ask what the proper acceptable monetary gift is from the GREAT GRANDPARENTS.our grandson&his wife are very strong in their faith and come from the chamorro culture where baptismal etiquette is observed by everyone. If anyone could advise me it would be very much appreciated! I was thinking monetary combined with an heirloom gift for baby! Thank you!